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Getting Irritated with an Angel

Getting Irritated with an Angel

I just got irritated with an angel. This morning while doing my meditation and spiritual practices I had a message come through that I should drop the planning for a while, just do what’s right in front of me and trust the rest would work out. Well, I am a planner baby! I have a daily […]

Re-Learning to Live Beyond Shackles

Re-Learning to Live Beyond Shackles

Have you ever carried a really heavy burden for so long that when it was gone you had to sort of relearn how to be and act without the weight bearing down on you? I’m going through that right now. Having finally come to the end of an extremely painful and stressful 2½ year ordeal […]

Going Through or Growing Through Our Big Mistakes

Going Through or Growing Through Our Big Mistakes

As someone who has been through it myself I now work with and support people who get caught in the horror of having their lives and careers blow up in spectacular fashion. For some people this is more public than for others and the public piece is certainly an added trauma – this I know […]

How to Stop Being What Happened to You

How to Stop Being What Happened to You

I learned something about myself recently that shocked me. I realized I had tied my identity to the trauma I’d been through. In other words I was presenting as a victim. I would NEVER have believed that about myself and I didn’t like seeing it. I think it mostly stemmed from the “Elephant in the […]

Happy Mothers Day to All Tough Mother F…ers!

Happy Mothers Day to All Tough Mother F…ers!

As many of you know, one of the treasures I found in these past couple of really difficult years is a much, much deeper appreciation of my mother. She’s had some really hard times, abused as a child and a wife and a mother. And yet, she stayed happy. She never talked about the hard […]